so a DJ i interviewed recommended (for us non-traditional bride & groom) to get the dancing kicked off, instead of tossing a real bouquet (which ive always hated) both the bride and groom invite all guests up to the dance floor after dinner, and we toss a lottery ticket bouquet (id have to make it). then since everyone is already out on the dance floor, thats when dancing begins. is this a good idea or corny? id rather do nothing than do something silly. we are just going for a non-stuffy, non-formal, non-traditional wedding atmosphere. this way we get everyone out of their seats in our outdoor-tent.