Due to some very tight budget constraints and a very large extended family (160) and a large immediate family (75) we have decided that we can't not invite people but we can't afford to feed everyone. We are planning on having a private dinner for our immediate family and then getting married at 6pm. My questions are: Do you think our guests will be offended by no dinner but only the late "midnight" snack/lunch? How would you word your invitations for the guests invited to the church and reception? Any help would be greatly appreciated as I am worried we will offend our extended family and friends. Thank you!