Beyond Stressed Bride?
I am so stressed and confused in so many ways. I am stuck between having a wedding here in Atlanta or On the beach some place sunny and fun. If I have the wedding here I can have things exactly how I want them. I can choose the cater, decor, music and etc but with that comes stress and a very long process.I can have all my family and friends there without causing them the hassle of traveling. With a DW I can let others handle that and have less choices to make. Although I won't get my choice of everything exactly how I want it will still be beautiful. I don't have a lot of family since my Grandma passed away, just my parents two brothers, sister, 3 nephews and two cousins. My guest list isn't that long to start and with the added stress of cost I may not have any. I am ok with eloping in fact it seems less stressful but I do not want my family upset with me. When I think of my wedding day I imagine my dad walking me down to meet the woman I will spend my life with. I imagine all night dancing, and tons of laughs. If I get married here I can get all of that but no honeymoon because we can not afford to do both. I started to think about a wedding in South Carolina or Savannah but I can't find and all inclusive resorts and that's what I really want. I have no idea what to do. I know it is about my FI and I but I love my family but finances are a big issue and I can't decide which is more important. Any advice? Anyone in my same boat?
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