So, I've tried not to say too much about FI's famly on here, really because there's too much to say. But, as background just know we have had TONS of problems with them. The rest haven't been so much WR, but this one takes the cake of the stuff that is.
Ally (FSIL) asked me over Thanksgiving what I was really stressed out about wedding-wise. I told her that the worst thing at the time was trying to find these specific frames for our memorial table. I don't her all about them, and she volunteered to make them for me.
Over Christmas, we talked about it again, and I even took her some candle holders I bought from Samantha as inspiration. Well, Saturday I had Matt ask her about them, and she said she WOULDN'T HAVE TIME. Excuse me? The wedding is in two weeks and you're telling me this now?
I really try to be very understanding about stuff like this, because I don't like asking people to do things for me, but there are a few reasons why this is extremel irritating. 1) She volunteered to do it! 2) She doesn't work. She has two kids, but she lives with Matt's parents, who watch them all the time. Her ex has them on the weekends too. 3) Last week she was complaining to me how bored she is when her kids aren't there. 4) She really could've let me know sooner, or gotten them done in the next two weeks.
Sorry this is so long, but I am incredibly frustrated. I generally tell people my feelings, but I feel like I should let this slide. Two of my BM's have volunteered to get the frames done for me, which makes me even more mad because they both have full time jobs and have offered to do other things as well!
TIA for listening. Deep Breath.