Here's the issue. I get that it is 'tacky' to put information about your registry 'on' your invites. But can you have a card with the invitations stating that we are not registered, FI and I are not registering because we already live together. In leiu of gifts, we would like people to bring their favorite dish to the potluck/BBQ reception. Our 'reception' is going to be very informal and all family and very close friends. Or can we make a spot on the RSVP cards for people to put what dish they plan on bringing?