fi and i sent out invitations and already have back all our RSVPs except 1--his cousin in the air force doesn't know his schedule for august yet but really wants to come.
we started talking about it and there's a few people that we've gotten a bit closer to since the invites went out a couple months ago and would like to have at the wedding. what should we do? there's still over 2 months before the wedding, so they definitely could get reasonable prices for flights and book their hotel. i'm not sure how to go about it. they also all know that we've been trying to keep the wedding small from the beginning. we have 19 guests now.
what do you ladies advise? should we just forget it at this point b/c it would be too awkward or is there a polite way to not make them feel second rate?