Fiance and I are getting married 6/1/12 at La Luna in Bensalem. Garden ceremony on site as well. We were supposed to be having 90 guest. Our bridal party is our 5 kids (my 3, his 2) and my maid of honor (cousin) and his two best men (brother and best friend).
I already booked the photographer and gave money down on the reception.
My dilemma is that my family and I aren't talking anymore because of gossip my MOH started. She and I since have made up. We used to be very close and always talked about when the time came that either of us got proposed to by our boyfriends. My boyfriend proposed to me in May of this year. Hers has yet to ask her. Ever since I got engaged she has been distant and doesn't really want much to do with me. She just makes excuses that she is busy.
We went to try on dresses and she didn't like anything. I'm alot busier than she is. I have 3 kids and work full time. Fiance's kid's are over on the weekends.
Anyway, I just about had it with my family.
I don't know if I can just not invite them. Or should I just got to city hall and get married and just have a nice honeymoon? I really wanted our kids at our wedding though.
When I told my MOH that I'm over sooo over this wedding. She tells me I should call it off and just go to city hall. If I go on with the wedding, I feel like I shouldn't invite her. WIthout my family there, I only have a handful of friends. I'm usually a loner. I don't think I know 90 people to invite. The minimun # of people I can have at the reception is 90.
Oh and if I cancel, what are my options on canceling the reception location? Do I just lose my money? Or can I transfer it off to someone else?
What should I do? Go ahead with the wedding or cancel and elope?
P.s. I already got my dress a couple weeks ago.