So i gave my MOH (who is my sister) a list of ladies to invite to my shower (this weekend). She sent out invites to all 40 ppl on the list.. I was expecting her to pick out 12-15 but she wanted to accomidate all.
Well FI's cousin lives over an hour away and she's older than my mother, (uses a cane to get around etc) i decided not to put her on the list because i didn't want her to come all the way out her for a couple hours and then have to drice back home. FI's granmother called my MOH and yelled at my BIL (he answered the phone) that she was RSVPing for he niece who should have been invited and she was coming because niece was giving her a ride.
I was shocked when my mom told me and called MOH right away I guess BIL wasn't that bothered but now my sister is really upset that she left someone out and now they are coming.
I am not sure how to approach the situation, do i make a phone call, do i wait til saturday.. Should i just talk to the niece and explain why she wasn't on the list. Do i just leave it all alone??
FI insists on talking to his granmother about how she handled the situation and how she talked to my BIL, honestly though BIL doesn't care since he has nothing to do with the shower at all.