Did you have anyone not show up at the last minute that you really wanted there? My really good friend T didn't show up. She hasn't even called me or sent a card. She only wrote on my FB that she was sick but couldn't wait to see the pictures. She is a really unreliable friend and I was doubting if she was going to be there but a week before she assured me she would. She says she was sick but my BM saw her while she was working two days before the wedding and looked fine. She said on FB she had been sick all week. Oh and the wedding was only about 10 minutes from her house.
I'm so upset. I just can't get it off my mind. I wish she would call me and at least say sorry or that she truly wanted to be there. But I doubt she will. She has become a pretty selfish person lately and maybe she doesn't care at all that she missed it. IDK. I went to her birthday get together back in December and spent over $70 of money I didn't really have at the time, because I cared about being there for her.
Let me add that we've been pretty close friends since 2003. That's almost 10 years.
Ladies, help...what should I do? Drop her as a friend? Just ingore her, or call her and explain how upset I am?