I finally realized that I can not do it all. We are on a strict budget and my FI talked me into cancelling the DJ and hiring a Florist. Still saving $600. I was going to do all the floral arrangements, bouquets, and boutonnieres myself. AND, we are having so much fun putting a playlist together for the reception music. And to think we were going to pay someone $900 for a 4 hour time period. I am so happy with my florist!