Hi there
Is it wrong NOT to want a shower. To be honest, I hate the idea. I know it's a tradition blah blah, but for me, it is more anxiety than it is worth..who to invite, not to invite...it gets to be rediculous. Not to mention, I just don't feel comfortable asking people to come to a party and spend a huge wad of cash on me before the wedding. I've never liked going to showers and I really don't think having one for myself is a good idea either. I don't mean to offend brides who actually enjoy the process but it is just not for me.
I think everyone expects a bride to have a shower, especially "mom" so would I hurt a lot of feelings if I say no I don't want one (particularly mom's feelings cause that is who I am doing this for, not for me) yikes ????
Monique