Hello, I need some advice and feedback on the possibility of paying, in my opinion an excessive amount, for a church. I am having a breakdown of faith and now questioning where I stand with the Catholic Church. I am a lifelong Catholic and extremely devoted to the church. I attended a couple World Youth Days when I was younger, taught CCD for seven years and attended church weekly, even through college. I have always envisioned and dreamed about getting married in the church by my childhood priest. Well that has now all hit a wall and I am now left questioning what I should do. My fiancé is not Catholic, he has never been baptized. We are able to marry in the church; however we are not allowed to have a full mass, rather we can just have a 15 minute marriage ceremony. Both my fiancé and I want to marry in our city's urban center, rather than the suburbs where my home parish is located. We are planning on having our reception in the city and want to keep the ceremony downtown to make it easier for our guest. Also, where we desire to get married is a beautiful historic cathedral building in between the riverfront and our state capitol building. Our heart is set on this location... but the church is going to charge us $1200 to have a 15 minute ceremony. I have approached the church and told them that amount is beyond our means and offered to volunteer, give back to that parish, anything to set a more reasonable price. They said they make no exception and that is the price. I was flabbergasted. For an organization of faith to turn me away because of my inability to pay that amount is astonishing to me? Now if we don't get married at this city church I am not sure what else to do? Our diocese is extremely strict and will not let us marry anywhere else but the church, no exceptions. My fiancé does not want to get married outside the city. So we have two choices, 1. Break the budget and pay the amount or 2. Defy the church and get married somewhere else, which would essentially mean I would leave the Catholic religion. This is more of a question of what faith means rather than the financial issue. How can a church impose so many stringent rules without inflexibility? After all are churches supposed to be a place of love and forgiveness? Has anyone ever come across something like this or had similar feelings?