Again, I just wanted to thank you ladies for your time and wonderful answers on my post last week.
I just wanted to let those of you who responded to my post know that BF and I spoke about things and they went very well. When that time comes we plan to be married in the CC that he grew up in.
We are going to begin attending Sunday mass regularly as I feel this is important. I am of the opinion that you can't just want Jesus in your life on your wedding day. If you want to be married under God then you should worship.
While I would not consider myself faithful I will be going to support BF in going to the church because he wants to reaffirm his faith. Maybe going will help me in my own struggles with religion too.
So thank you all again! I might be back with questions later since this is going to be new to me and you were all so helpful!