I apologize for posting twice today and for the length of this post.
I asked a relative to read the general intercessions at our Nuptial Mass - however, one of the prayers is causing a rift, "For those who have gone before us, especially our departed family members and friends, may they rest in peace". This relative (she is non-denominational) is saying that praying for the deceased is not in-line with biblical teachings because our life after death is determined by our choices while we are alive and cannot be changed once you have died.
Did I mess up when I wrote the prayer? I joined the Church last year and still have a lot to learn about my Catholic faith, but this type of prayer seemed pretty common to me. If this is instead an issue between the differences in beliefs between Catholics and non-Catholics, then I suspect I may have to ask someone else to read the prayers. Can someone help me with the Catholic Church's view on including a prayer for the deceased?
Thank you