My fiance and I are both in the military and he's getting ready to deploy to Afghanistan. Our wedding is set for next July when he gets back, but we were looking at possibly going to a JOP for admin purposes (with both of us in agreement/understanding that this is merely a piece of paper for the military and we will not actually be married and act as husband and wife until the actual Catholic ceremony). What is the church's view on this and are there any exceptions (ie military)? I know a few people that have done this but we want to make sure that we can still receive the sacrament of marriage.