So, I recently got engaged and have not asked my bridesmaids to be in the wedding yet. I have been very good friends with one girl since we have been in eighth grade and wanted her to be in the wedding. After thinking about it and convincing from another friend, I should not have her in the wedding because before my fiance and I were even together she slept with him. My other friend suggested to me that I should not have her in the wedding because I would feel horrible looking at wedding pictures and knowing that one of my good friends slept with my husband. I am just really confused because I know she will be really really upset if I do not have her and have other friends who are not as close we are! Give me some suggestions whether I should have her or not and and how I go about talking to her about it!! Please help!