My best friend is a guy, and we always said he'd be my maid of honor and I'd be his best man. Well, I'm getting married in October 2010 and named him maid of honor, and he's getting married in May 2011 and named me best man...
And then (after I already told all my/our friends and my family) him and his fiance puts up their website listing me as "Best Maid" and his brother as his best man...
His fiance is having a man be her maid of honor as well, but she didn't do this on her side of the wedding party. So I feel very upset. I know this wouldn't even be an issue if I were a man, and I have a feeling it's his brother initiating all of it...
I thought I could talk to my best friend about anything, but this is just too upsetting right now. What should I do?