Okay so I'm having a litte dilemma with Flower Girls for my wedding. I have always known that my 2 neices would be my flower girls (they will be 38 months and 21 months) at the time of my wedding. Well my fiance (who's little sister is 19 will be a bridesmaid) also has 2 first cousins who are girls, one is about 3-6 months older than my oldest neice and the other will be 6 at the time of the wedding. I don't have a problem with there being 4 flower girls but I'm afraid that the 6-year-old will feel like she's being considered a baby if we have her be a flower girl with 3 other girls all under the age of 3.5. So my question is would it be inappropriate of us to have her be like a female ring bearer. That way she has a job that is a little mroe responsibility than just a flower girl?What are your thoughts? Thanks in advance!