okay, so I went and looked at greenacres art center in Indian Hill. It is the most amazing place I have ever seen and would be the most amazing reception there- trouble is, its 10,000 just to rent the place, plus you have to rent everything yourself- the tent outside and everything in it, as well as alcohol and catering.... its outside of my price range. Now no matter where I look, I still keep going back to this place. Nothing else measures up. agh! first question: has anyone ever been to a wedding there? second: do you think its stupid to get a second job and cmpromise on other things to have the wedding of your dreams, or do you think its one of those things where afterwards you think...what did I spend all that money??I really need some help here. Should I just get over it and settle on another place???