If you had some sort of a "day after" breakfast, brunch or lunch, who did you invite? My parents will be paying for it and we planned on inviting only out of town guests from my side of the family. We're planning to have the brunch at my parents' house. My parents don't know anyone from FI's side and can't really afford to double the guest list. My FI isn't close to any of his parents' wedding guests either. Do we have to invite them? Will it be awkward for his parents not to have any of their guests there? Should that bother me? After all, this is an event that is kind of optional etiquette-wise to start with, so I don't think I should feel guilty about this. Right? Thanks, ladies. Any advice is greatly appreciated.