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Officiant choice

My FI and I are not religious and we've had a couple offers to officiate the ceremony.  One friend's dad is actually a Shaman and has offered to do our ceremony for free.  He married our friends and did a beautiful job but my parents and coworkers have told me that's weird and said it seems unofficial.  Our other offer is from a Federal Judge that I work with who would also do it for free.  He doesn't know us as well but I've heard he does a great job and that would definitely be a more traditional route.  What do you guys think?

Re: Officiant choice

  • edited December 2011
    I don't know if you're still looking for an answer, but I think I would have the judge do it.  I'm just more of a traditional person though!  In the end, it really is your personal choice! I'm sure your friend's dad would also do a great job!
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