I took the 1st step and put a deposit on my venue!
I am in need of some advice. After, I got engaged I went to him and asked if he will be contributing to my wedding and if so how much (bad idea). He said he couldn't commit to anything (which is fine, bad economy and all), BUT I had a pretty substantial amount of money in a bank account in his name since I first started working when I was 16 years old, and HE SPENT IT ALL. There was enough money in the account to cover 1/2 the cost of the venue.
I never changed the account to my name because I trusted that it would be safe guarded, and I didn't want to spend it on something stupid (seriously regretting that decision).
Here's my delimma: Since he is not contributing to my wedding and spent my money. Am I being unreasonable by not allowing him to invite any of his friends to my wedding?