Hi there Knotties!
My fiance and I are Christians, so we both have/are remaining pure [virgins] until we get married.
I really don't like the idea of going to a hotel/bed and breakfast/anywhere for our wedding night.
I want us to be at the apartment we bought together for maybe 2 days before we go off to our honeymoon.
I know it's less romantic than a hotel or bed and breakfast, but is it tacky/foolish/extremely unromantic?
I planned on making the whole place look romantic, candles, lighting, music, everything.
I just feel like having the first moment as husband and wife should not be spent in a place where thousands of other people have slept in the same bed and a place that you'll likely never be in again to begin with.
My mother goes on and on and on about how unromantic that would be and how much of a buzzkill it would be and how it would make a bad start to our marriage.
What do you think?
Have you ever heard of not going straightaway to the honeymoon?