My fiance and I are looking to do something simple for our wedding. It will be my 2nd marriage, his 1st. We recently bought land in Tennessee and wanted to have everything take place there. We are simple people and dont need a big fancy wedding. I have more family and friends to invite than he does. My question is, with it being my 2nd (and last!) time around, do you think that more people from my family would be more inclined to show up if they knew it was more casual to where I wouldn't expect gifts from them this time around?