My FI and I are getting married in about 6 weeks. We are doing a beach wedding...at 8:30 am. We cant move the date because he will only be home for 2 weeks. (He will be on r&r) He wants to have a backyard bbq for about 30 people at his parents house, which isnt a problem. The wedding should only take about 30 minutes, Im thinking 9 am is a little early to start bbqing. Im thinking maybe still invite everyone to their house, just purchase a lot of breakfast snacks, coffee and oj until we actually start cooking at 11 or so. Does this seem like too much or maybe a good idea?