So a few weeks ago a met two more members of FI's family, his aunt and uncle from his dads side. We went out for breakfast with FI's parents and his aunt and uncle. I saw a friend of mine who worked there and while we were off talking I guess wedding stuff came up. Anyways FI just told me yesterday that his uncle asked where the wedding was taking place. FMIL answered that it was at a park. So is uncle said," great, i get to wear jeans". And FMIL said "yeah, sure".
Im getting married, not having a BBQ. I dont want people wearing jeans at my wedding, the single most important day of my life. I couldnt believe she said that was ok.