Ok, so my daughter and I have no health insurance... My fiance has health insurance through his work but in order for him to add us to it we have to be married. I have an operation on my eye that's going to be pretty expensive. Last night my fiance suggested we go ahead and get married at the court house and then have the ceremony as we already planned in june. Logistically it makes sense but I don't know how I feel about it. It seems like a ceremony would be superfluous if we're already married but i don't want to not have a ceremony either. Also I don't know if our pastor would be willing to do the ceremony if we were already married. Any thoughts?
We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love