I know this has been asked a million times, but I never paid much attention and I can't seem to do a search of the board.
I remember people on this board talking about some sort of checklist or file that they could send, to make this process easier. Does anyone have this, that they would be willing to email to me? My address is my knottie name at gmail.com
Also, I read on the DMV website that they will check your info with SS office, and all you need to bring is your ID and marriage cert. I asked a friend at work who just changed her name, and she said they told her they couldn't look anything up and that she had to wait until she had her SS in hand before coming to the DMV. What have your experiences been? If they can verify the info with SS, how long does it take after you change with SS for that to be updated online?
I want to get it all sorted out as soon as possible! Thanks!