Hi ladies,
I'm sorry in advance if this might be long. I need your thoughts. I got engaged this past weekend. And let's just say I like the design of the ring. I just think he could have done better. I know I sound materalistic, which I am not at all. I don't dress in designers. My bags cost $20-50. I've never (and I mean, never) ever asked my FI to buy me anything. When we go shopping, I would pay for mine own. I even paid for him at times. He, on the other hand, has top of the line clothing. I have no problem with that since it's his money. But the ring (it's the only thing he has gotten me) deserves more. He got me a 1 C ring. Btw, he makes 6 figures. I think I deserve better than that. My question is...do you think my FI cheaped out on me?
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First of all, I want to thank you all for replying. Maybe like some of you said, I am materialistic...I just don't realize it. I should have added more to my story. It may not make any difference to you.
Please don't think that I made my decision based on the size or the amount of the ring. I had said yes to my FI a year earlier. It was not a planned proposal so he didn't have the ring then. Since we didn't have the ring, we didn't make it official until the past weekend. When he asked me again this time, I again said yes without seeing the ring. Within the past year, we talked about what kind of ring to get. And what I actually want is a ring which I can wear forever...meaning no upgrades. I want to keep the ring as it is. Since he can easily afford now, why not? We just bought a house together. We both make good money. If we were still in school, then I could see future upgrades. But we are financially stable. The ring he gave cannot hold a 1.5C diamond because the prongs are too short. So if we were to upgrade, I would have to get a different ring. I wouldn't want to give up the ring I will have worn for so long for another even though it may be bigger. Although I think he could have done better, I am still keeping the 1C as it is...no future upgrades!