So our wedding isn't until 2012 because we're paying our own way and want to try to pay as much in cash as we can. Everytime someone asks me when the big day is and I tell them, I always get the same reaction of "why are you waiting so long", or "oh, you have a while yet....". I'm starting to feel like people aren't taking us seriously because we can't bump our date to next October (like we origianlly wanted). Is anyone going though this, or did go through it, or am I just thinking into this too much?