Just Engaged and Proposals
haven't told anyone yet: selfish or smart? Help!
So my fiance and I live together and are planning our special day for 3-5 years due to us both being full time students.
My Mother knows we live together and that things are serious, just not how serious they are. My Mom is like my best friend but I'm terrified of dissapointing her because 1) she has yet to meet my FI due to the 1300 mile distance for my schooling and 2) my older sister got knocked up by her loser boyfriend and my mom is on meltdown mode.
I feel bad everytime we talk and I don't tell her but especially when I look at the ring on my finger. She's supportive of everything I do but I feel like with all the nonsense my sister has created her reaction would be less than pleasant.
I'm the baby daughter and have lived in my sister's shadow but I worry that instead of a happy, excited feeling I will recieve a "I can't believe you" kinda thing.
What do I do??