Hello, I am engaged with a few months.The problem is that after 7 years together I had to do a lot of convincing and eventually I asked him to marry me. As much as I love my guy he does not do romance so I gave up waiting for him to ask me. The problem is I feel terrible and have become cross and sad since we got engaged. I know I'm being unfair but I think like most people here I had high expectations for my proposal. I organized my ring through a friend so we didn't have that moment either. I understand some people are not romantic but is it really a lot to ask for a guy to go out of his way and do something romantic for the person he loves for just 1 day. I do talk to him about it and he has promised me he will do something special for me but months have passed...It's my birthday next week and he asked me to book a restaurant so no surprise then either ...... I though getting engaged would make me feel fantastic! Anyone else experience anything like this?