I AM HAVING A DESTINATION WEDDING.....WE LIVE IN FL AND WE ARE DOING IT IN SAVANNAH, GA
WE LOVE OUR VENUE AND WANTED TO KEEP NUNBERS LOW IN ORDER TO NOT BREAK THE BANK..
OUR VENUE IS FOR ONLY 150. WE HAD ABOUT 180 ON OUR LIST (WHICH EVERYONE TOLD ME WOULD BE OK).... THAT IS UNTIL OUR FAMILIES CAME OT VISIT US AND WANTED US TO KEEP PUTTING PEOPLE ON THE LIST, SAYING OH THEY WON'T COME BUT IT WOULD BE NICE IF YOU SENT ONE!!! SO NOW WE HAVE A LIST OF ABOUT 198 PEOPLE. I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE WILL SAY NO (VERY ELDERLY PEOPLE, PEOPLE WHO JUST HAD BABIES AND LIVE FAR AWAY ETC) BUT I AM FREAKED OUT! I KEEP DREAMING ABOUT IT! I TOLD MY FIANCE I WILL ONLY INITIALLY SEND OUT 150 INVITES. THIS BEING SAID, OUR WEDDING IS JANURAY 19TH, 2013 BUT WHEN SHOULD I START SENDING OUT THE INITIAL 150 INVITES KNOWING THAT I WILL LIKELY BE SENDING MORE PEOPLE AFTER?
IS RSVP BY NOVE 1ST WAY TOO EARLY? OR WHEN SHOULD I DO IT? THANKS I NEED SOME HELP ASAP!