I have been engaged for one month and I feel like I am wishing this wedding to come and go so that I can be done with it! Its terrible! My fiance is part of a group called the Mummers and we have a TON of people that he really wants at our wedding. Our guest list is around 350. We have limited options due to the large number and I can't wrap my head around the amount of money we are going to spend. Our parents are both willing to help and fortunately are in a position that they can which I am so grateful for. Why can't I just enjoy this and be happy!?