Hello, everyone. I'm one of the crazies who is getting married before graduating. =] (And of course, I'll be staying in school.) We originally we're planning on December of 2012, but that proved to be difficult on a number of levels and we ended up settling on August 4, 2012. Six months. I was doing pretty good with getting things accomplished before school started last month, but now I feel like I'm spinning my wheels. We're on a small budget, so we aren't hiring a wedding planner. I wanted my bridesmaids to pick out their own dresses--either collectively or individually with a few guidelines--but as one of them, my cousin, pointed out, no one wants to be the one to make that decision. Now I'm looking at the checklist which is saying "Order them now! (OR DIE!)" and feeling flustered because I found one with my sister and said cousin that they and I liked, but I wanted the other bridesmaids to try them on before saying, "buy it." Two of them live far away. So I feel stuck.
I also have no clue what to do about invitations. I want to make/print them myself if possible, but pouring over designs has left me feeling even more undecided. We sent out save-the-dates with pingg.com, so there isn't an obvious matching choice. I'm looking for something informal, and swing between not really caring at all what it looks like and then feeling that I *must* care greatly. I think I finally decided to go with silk flowers. My mom is going to help arrange them and she keeps asking me what I want, where again I have few definitive answers.
/>.< Then there's everything else to do with decorations and food. My fiancé doesn't have a "vision" for how things should look either.
Anyone else feeling/felt this way?