Hi Everyone!
So I have been engaged since last January, and wedding planning as been more of a chore than fun. To be honest, I don't have a whole lot done. I was planning for a simple church wedding with a community center reception, then my Fiance burst my bubble. His parents were married there, which I thought they were married at a different church, so now he does not want to get married in the church because his divorced parents were.
So, now I am planning a wedding that I am not 100% happy about, and it has been more of a chore. We are having it outside at barn that has been converted into a dance hall. The huge problem is that there is so much more to do and plan for the wedding at this location compared to the one closer to us and everyone else. This new place is about a good hour away.
But anyway, I work full-time and go to school full-time. I am an EDU major and it is a little hard trying to juggle observation time into my work schedule. I only work M-F but it is a full eight hour day and then I don't get home from class till 10:30 on Mondays and Thursdays. We also own our home and my fiance is a firefighter. He is gone for 24 hours and home for 48 but then he works for a plumber on his days off from the fire house and he is also a very busy volunteer fire fighter. I love him, but he has not been taking this wedding planning seriously so it has been up to me.
Right now, I am beyond stressed out and almost started crying. I have been very snappy with my fiance today, which I feel horrible about. We are getting married in October and I feel like I have nothing done! How do some of you handle the stress?