So my engagement/future-in-law situation is different from most...I'm 23, and getting ready to graduate in December with my bachelors degree. My fiancee is 31, and his parents are a little older than mine-later 50's.
On my graduation day is also his father's family (my future f-i-l) giant family Christmas family. His parents and sister and her family are not only not coming to my graduation ceremony (that's one thing), but they're not even leaving the party to come out to the dinner that my fiancee is graciously paying for at an expensive Hibachi grill.I can be offended that they're not even coming to dinner, right?
Makes me feel like they don't care.