Last summer, after going out for 2 years, he saw me in Spanx for the first time while we were getting ready for a relative's wedding. I only wear them during the week (with dress pants) and we usually only saw each other on weekends. "What are you wearing?" was his reaction. The other morning, after moving in, I was struggling to get them on when his car pulled up after walking the dog. I panicked, then started laughing out loud - maybe some day I'll tell him why, maybe not. What about you?