I'm having an outdoor wedding at the end of September at a lighthouse, the bathroom is a bit of a hike away. We are only inviting about 35 people. I'm very worried about my Mom. She has dementia and has incontinence problems. (Sorry if this is TMI). She sometimes will start peeing when she stands up or just thinks about peeing. She also sometimes has bowel incontinence problems. I'm TERRIFIED that she will have an issue during the wedding or at the reception. She does wear adult diapars, but still ..... her pants get wet, etc.
Honestly, I just sort of want to call the whole thing off, though STDs have already been sent. The groom is more interested in the wedding, whereas I would be happy just doing a civil ceremony.
What to do?
Proposal Site: 12/29/10 United States Capitol Building