My Fi and I are planning a wedding in the fall of next year with a strict budget of 5,000 with no help but everyone wants to put their thoughts and ideas into it. Its becoming stressful because I have somewhat of a large family and IF I invite everyone it would be a total of 160 guest if i dont then it will be 70 guest which is all I can really afford. My grandmother is not happy about that and says FAMILY shouldnt have to be counted out but she is not paying the expenses and half of my family I dont know or talk to. I hate to see my grandmother upset so i have no clue of what to do.