Hi all,
My girlfriend recently got married in HI and she said she didn't pay for anything except the wedding itself. Every guest paid for their own airfare, hotel room, and if the wanted to join in any activities, including the dinner after the wedding, they paid for themselves. She was able to stay under a budget of $5000 doing this! She then spent most of the money on a reception at home for everyone that couldn't afford HI. We were thinking of planning a few small excursions (kayaking, luau) that guests pay for themselves, but we would host a small champagne app get together in our hotel suite that WE pay for before a casual dinner. We're also hosting a reception back at home a couple weeks later.
Help, thanks!