I know it will ultimately come down to our decision, but maybe getting some outside input would help... My FI and I are young (22me/23 him) so I know a lot of people would immediately say "WAITTTT". I find this somewhat irrelevant, because my belief system is based on working on a healthy relationship, not just falling into one (i.e. there is no such thing as soulmates. You're with the person you love; you weren't meant to be. You WORK to be in a good relationship). Mike and I are both very educated, open and honest. (I feel as though I need to prove that we're mature and already fully committed. I suppose I have nothing to prove though. It's just... you guys don't know our relationship except for what I write. Anyways..)I want the wedding to be in Fall 2010. The Farmhouse would be absolutely beautiful in the fall! He is leaning more towards 2011, though has recently been saying 2010 is good too.Spring 2011 would give us more time to save since we'll be paying for a lot of it ourselves (only a few months more though)Fall 2010 is right near our birthdays, which would make it a marathon of presents... Sept - anniversary; Oct - my birthday; Nov - his birthday; Dec - Christmas. Ahhhh. But I've always wanted a fall wedding because it's my favorite season and it's so gorg.Spring 2011 would probably still be nice, but the foliage would be way different. Plus, if you think about it it would be a marathon too since we plan on having kids (YEARS done the road)... May - mother's day; June - anniversary; June - father's day.OKAY IN SHORT: how did you guys decide? I really want 2010 but I don't want to be choosing it for the wrong reasons.