Ok so maybe I overdramatized the height...
But here's the deal-
I am 5'3 (5'5 with heels). My best friend is 5'11 and larger boned. I want her to be the MOH but she towers over me. It sounds stupid but she will throw off the pics and is much larger/taller than the groomsmen. She isn't into weddings but promises to be the best MOH for me. My cousin is not nearly as close to me but has offered to be the MOH. She was married last year and knows what I would need from her. I had imagined her being my MOH since we were young but we lost contact for 20 years and are just getting familar again.
Would you ask the tall best friend to be your MOH instead of the long lost cousin?
And yes, I am being superficial...I know this already