We have found a great photographer for the price we wanted. We even found food, but we need a DJ or band. We also need one that won't have all of that distracting lights and ugly equipment. We have a specific theme and our photographer is great at creating our look, but he did warn us about disco lights and low lighting. We have a great location with large stained glass and marble to go with our look, but we don't want the DJ to control our lighting and mess up our memory. Help. We want a blue grass or classical type band maybe or just a simple DJ that focuses on the music and not the display. Thanks! Sara and Mike