Ladies, I was hoping someone (or someone(s)) could give me some much needed advice in the area of photographers at the wedding. I hate having my picture taken. By hate I mean I usually avoid it all costs, even to the extent of omitting myself from family photos, and special events. I cringe everytime I see a picture of myself, and it isn't uncommon for me to photoshop myself out of them if one is accidently snapped. My fiance is a Ham. He loves the camera. I don't want a photographer because of my insecurities, where my fiance is putting his foot down one will be in attendence. I don't know what to do! I understand that he wants to have paper memories, but the thought of having to endure countless pictures has me wanting to cry. Even worse than posed pictures are the ones snapped when I'm not looking, so I'm at a loss!