So the general rule of thumb for the bridal party is they are to buy their own attire; more specifically for the bridesmaids... their dress. If the bride wants a specific shoe, she is to purchase it for everyone, or if she chooses a color the BM's are free to choose the shoe of their liking.
I am just curious as to what everyone plans on doing for their own weddings. Are you making your girls buy a shoe that you picked out? If you are, how much would you make them spend on the shoes?
I ask because I am standing up in a wedding in October, and the bride has thrown out the idea of getting brown Toms. Now, I don't mind Toms, I have 2 pairs, both given as gifts. But these shoes are A) Brown, which is not a color I wear or buy on my own and
$60 with shipping, and I am broke as a joke right now.
I wouldn't mind getting brown shoes of my choice. I could easily find a $15 pair of flats at Payless, or borrow my sisters shoes. So bottom line is I don't want to buy them. I think $60 is too much to ask someone to spend on a pair of shoes that they will never wear again.
Give me your opinions on this. Am I over-reacting? Do I suck it up and buy them? Or do I just get my own cheapie brown shoes?