This was passed on to me by another knotty-
"Make it YOUR wedding. Not anyone else's second or third wedding. YOURS. You're only supposed to get one.
Don't forget to always say I love you.
No matter what, never go to sleep angry.
Love + Honesty+ Patience = A happy marriage. And make sure J has the same toys as your father . (from my mom!)
Don't forget the pillow talk, it can lead to memories.
Never go to bed without a kiss. Think and take a deep breath before talking when having a disagreement, and COMPROMISE.
For J: Always say "Yes, dear!"
And last, my favorite from my dear grandfather who passed away in May:
Marriage is about respect. Always help each other and keep each other first in your life. Keep god in your marriage and you will have a long and happy life."