Do you girls sometimes feel we don’t include them enough, or do we force them to participate? (with planning) I’m In NO this weekend. A surprise trip from my love. I feel like an unprepared ******!!!! He said I should play and meet with whoever. So sweet but no notice! WHAT? We have a small wedding compared to you girls but I feel, well, just as important. So is your guy participating, or do you feel he just wants you to “handle” what “WE” want? I get bits of info from friends but am trulu curious if your man wishes you would just …..make this happen??