I was recently in a large wedding at this church conducted by Father Tony Borgia. If we ALL weren't so appalled and offended by this man's behavior, I wouldn't have wasted the time to sign into my Knot account from last year to warn others about him. 1. He expects NO ONE to celebrate with ONE DROP of alcohol on the day of the wedding. This means he pre-admonishes groups of adults at the rehearsal by threatening to 'walk out of the wedding' if he hears 'that the bride has a mimosa' or the 'groom has a shot' or if anyone in the bridal party does it either. He threatens the bride and groom into being babysitters for their own adult crew or he will 'just walk out and go home and watch tv'. He is proud of the fact that he's 'done it before, he'll do it again'. 2. During the rehearsal, he feels it necessary to admonish those in the pews, not in the wedding at all and not disturbing anyone, like a schoolteacher yelling at students. 3. During the wedding, he 'calls on' members of the bridal party to answer questions about what he thinks makes a good marriage and if you say something he doesn't like (because he, never married, is the authority on marriage and he should judge what married people suggest, even if they are trying to be funny) he rolls his eyes, shakes his head with disdain, and announces to the whole church that 'you can ask that person later what they said', making it an awkward moment that detracts from the ceremony. Many of us in the bridal party had our jaws drop so many times at his level and amount of offending, condescending attidues and comments that I wanted to find a way to inform others about this unfortunate behavior. Avoid at least this celebrant at this church unless you want to be treated like an irresponsible toddler by someone who seems quite happy to so so especially with an audience. I was born and raised Catholic and was embarassed by this celebrant and hope those in attendance, both guests and wedding party, don't think this is how all Catholic priests treat people.