For our wedding we did not invite children under the age of 18 with the exception of my sister and brother and our nieces and nephews and of course my FI's son, all but two of which are in the wedding. So I had to tell a few people no kids who asked if they could bring them even tho they weren't included on the invitations. Well a friend just emailed me asking if her 15 yr old daughter could come (8 days until the wedding). This woman's husband just passed away a few weeks ago from a brain stem injury related to a very tragic softball accident. Her daughter is having a very hard time dealing with it. But I had to explain to this woman why we cannot have her daughter at the wedding (she is already bringing another guest - since I gave her a "and guest" on her invite - if she wanted to bring her daughter as her guest, that I would be totally fine with). I feel terrible about it but I cannot have her daughter there when I left out many of my cousins and bridesmaids' children. It just wouldn't seem fair. WDYT? I just feel so BAD!